Proverbs 22:4 (NLT)
“True humility and fear of the Lord lead to riches, honor, and long life.”

Many of us are walking around with wounded hearts and troubled minds. The world is changing, and these are challenging times. On top of this, some of us have issues in our relationships and finances that are causing us stress. We may be dealing with trouble on the job and at home, and this can rob us of the peace that God wants us to have. Searching for someone or something to help us escape feelings of despair, we sometimes turn to the wrong source for comfort. We go down the wrong road, and it can send us spiraling to further depths of confusion and disappointment. Romans 5:1 tells us that we have peace with God through Jesus Christ. This is the rescue we desperately need, and we will do ourselves the greatest favor if we learn to tap into God’s tremendous peace and power. 

A changed mind
Romans 12:2(NKJV) says, “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” This verse is packed with truth, the kind that will help us take our lives to new levels of peace and abundance. It first tells us that God doesn’t want our minds to be conformed by the world or to be shaped by what society believes and teaches. Society has views and opinions that are often against God’s Word, and they tell us to do, think, feel, and say things that are opposite of what God says. This can add to our problems instead of helping us to solve them.

When our minds are conformed to something, it means that we will follow it, and this can lead us down that wrong road we’ve pointed to above. God wants us to be blessed. He wants us to love others with the love of Christ and to be full of his joy, peace, authority, and power. Our minds are a huge part of living this reality. God commands us to renew our minds, which means to change the way we think. This is necessary because sometimes we think and believe in a way that sabotages our happiness. We can be stubborn about changing our thoughts and attitudes, and we resist it because sameness is comfortable, but we must understand that not renewing our minds as God tells us can cause us to miss some of the wonderful blessings that He wants us to have.   

Proverbs 23:7(NKJV) says, “For as he thinks in his heart, so is he.” Thoughts we think in our hearts are thoughts that have become pretty dug in. It means we’ve believed something to the point that it’s at the core of who we are. We get stuck in patterns of thinking and behaving, and we don’t confront those patterns or analyze them to see if they’re working for us. Our responsibility is to observe ourselves a little more closely and break the patterns that injure our relationship with God and hinder our faith.  

Don’t worry
God tells us in Philippians 4:6(NLT), “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done.” All worry stems from a lack of faith, and this is one of the reasons that God tells us not to let our minds and hearts become bogged down by worry and anxiety. We’re to pray through situations with faith and right believing. Sure, our thoughts and feelings may tell us that things are falling apart, and that we need to be fearful, but we can’t succumb to wrong believing and let it win. God has empowered us through Christ to be more than conquerors in every situation. He wants the authority and truth of His Word to override our thoughts and feelings. He wants us to trust that He is greater than our problems, and He is willing and able to help us.

Proverbs 3:5 tells us that we shouldn’t lean on our own understanding, but instead, we must trust in the Lord with all our hearts. You and I don’t see the big picture. God does, and we must trust Him to handle things. Psalm 28:7 declares that the Lord is our strength and shield, and Romans 8:31-32(NLT) says, “If God is for us, who can ever be against us? 32 Since he did not spare even his own Son but gave him up for us all, won’t he also give us everything else?” We must confess and believe that God is who He says He is, and that He will do what He has said He will do. He always keeps His promises. He’s our incomparable fortress, and our peace in times of trouble. If we’re not thinking and confessing these truths daily, then we might be on the wrong road. The Good News is that God has made a way for us through Christ to get on the right one when we change our thoughts, honor Him in our hearts, and claim God’s power and love over every aspect of our lives.■

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

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