I Won’t Stop Trusting God

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Life certainly presents its share of challenges, something I fully realized one evening when I had a painful argument with my now ex-husband. As usual, he was settled into his lounge chair when I came home from work, ready to pick a fight. Silence and avoidance might not seem like abuse, but when you’re married and living together with children, it can be one of the most hurtful forms.

In times like these, I cling to the promise of Christ in John 16:33 (NLT): “I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.” This journey through life is often marked by trials and sorrows, especially in our most significant relationships. The hateful behaviors, passive aggression, and spitefulness can cut like a knife. Despite the trials, we can trust that God’s peace and strength will guide us through these storms, and He never fails.

As a communicator, I find it incredibly difficult to remain silent for long periods, so enduring my husband’s intentional silence was absolute torture. His refusal to speak was his way of punishing me for something he didn’t like. While I didn’t think much of it during our dating years, his behavior ultimately over-burdened our marriage. My opinions, our differences, and even the air I breathed seemed to annoy him at times. Rather than talking about it, he stopped speaking to me for months on end. Those were some of the loneliest times of my life. I wanted desperately to engage with my partner, but he seemed to value punishing me more than loving me. It ended up being a very dark place, and this is not want God wants for anyone.

James 1:2-3 (NLT)is a verse that really hits home: “Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy. For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow.” True growth begins during challenging times. It’s through these trials that we learn to trust God. When in your heart you desire nothing more than to love and be loved by your spouse, being mistreated by them a spouse is shockingly hurtful. You ask the Lord, “How much more must I endure?” But it is precisely during these moments of testing that our faith is strengthened, and our relationship with God deepens.

In these moments of struggle, it can be helpful to remember that every trial is an opportunity for transformation. As we navigate the difficulties in our relationships and personal lives, we are invited to lean into God’s grace and find strength in His promises. Each challenge can become a steppingstone towards greater endurance and understanding. Philippians 4:13 (NLT) reveals, “For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength,” By relying on God’s strength, we can face problems, disappointments, and stressful situations with greater resilience. He will light the path to greater blessings and hope if we resolve in our minds and hearts, “I won’t stop trusting God!” Through our faith in Him, we’ll discover that even in the midst of pain, God is with us, fueling our hope and renewal.

As we push through these tough times, remember that every struggle is a chance for growth and a step closer to something better. Each challenge helps us lean into God’s strength and rediscover the extent to which He’s empowered us through the Holy Spirit to overcome every obstacle. Keep pushing forward with faith, knowing that every trial is shaping you for greater things. Trust that God’s got your back, lighting the way even when the path seems unclear. These moments are building something amazing in you. In the end, you’ll come out stronger, clinging more tightly to God, and ready for the blessings that lie ahead. ■

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

“I Won’t Stop Trusting God”, written for DomesticAbuseAwareness.Org ©2025. All rights reserved. All done to the glory of God through Jesus Christ, our Lord!

God’s Love is Your Refuge

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When the person you love inflicts pain—whether physical or emotional—where do you turn for solace? In those moments of hurt and confusion, find refuge in God. Trust that His unwavering love will not falter. It is His love, grace, and mercy that will carry you through the darkest times. The psalmist encourages us in Psalms 34:8 (NLT) “Taste and see that the Lord is good.  Oh, the joys of those who take refuge in him!” This verse invites us to personally experience the goodness of God and assures us that those who seek shelter in Him will find joy. While others may offer advice on how to trust God, the experience of faith is deeply personal and unique. It’s something you must witness and taste for yourself to truly understand.

Even the most seasoned Christians face challenges, but through steadfast trust in God, we find the strength to triumph over seemingly insurmountable obstacles. As Romans 8:37 (NLT) declares, “No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us.” The trials we endure are not without purpose; they often lead us to a deeper understanding of His love.

Many people, including myself, face struggles that can feel overwhelming. Yet, there is a more effective way to navigate these challenges without separating ourselves from faith in God’s love and His power to help us. No problem is too big for Him to solve, but our faith must be firmly anchored in Him. I’ve learned that clinging too tightly to fears or past hurts can stifle our spiritual and personal growth. We can become so engulfed in our disappointment that we lose sight of the path to redemption and renewal. By trusting in God’s ability to guide us, we allow His grace to clear the way, helping us to overcome obstacles and find a path toward healing and transformation.

Faith in God opens our eyes to the light of Jesus Christ. Consider the promise of 1 Peter 5:7 (NLT), which says, “Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you.” By letting go and placing your trust in God, you open yourself up to His transformative power. When you surrender your fears and hurts to Him, you allow His love to guide you toward a better tomorrow, one where His peace and grace can illuminate your path forward.

Often, what we’re missing is this very trust. The darkness of our situations can overwhelm our senses, leaving us feeling stuck and consumed by emotions and thoughts that cloud our clarity. We may feel disconnected, struggling with confusion and frustration. Yet, by turning our concerns over to God, we invite His light into our lives, clearing the way for healing and renewal.

It doesn’t happen overnight. Transformation and the strengthening of our relationship with God is a journey, and it takes time to see the fruits of our trust in Him. But He never leaves or forsakes us, and with each step forward, you are moving closer to the peace and clarity He promises. Remember, His love is your refuge, providing guidance and support even when the path seems unclear. Trust in His timing and allow His love to lead you. He will turn your disappointment into the breakthrough that you so deeply desire for your life. ■

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

“God’s Love is Your Refuge”, written for DomesticAbuseAwareness.Org ©2025. All rights reserved. All done to the glory of God through Jesus Christ, our Lord!

A Collapsed House

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In Job 1:18-19 (NLT), there’s this shocking moment where a messenger comes to Job with some heart-wrenching news: “Your sons and daughters were feasting in their oldest brother’s home. Suddenly, a powerful wind swept in from the wilderness and hit the house on all sides. The house collapsed, and all your children are dead. I am the only one who escaped to tell you.”  Imagine the horror: a home reduced to rubble; children lost in an instant. It’s a nightmare that strikes right at the core of our sense of safety and stability.

When a home falls apart, it’s not just a physical collapse but an emotional one that shakes the foundation of our being. It also means a big hit to our sense of safety and stability. For many of us, this kind of disaster isn’t just a distant worry—it’s something we worry about all the time.  Maybe your husband has threatened to leave, and you lie awake each night dreading the moment you come home to find their stuff gone. Or you might be juggling everything on your own, trying to take care of your family while feeling completely worn out. Bills keep piling up, and it feels like one more setback could be the tipping point that makes everything crumble. In these moments, you might feel like the “house” of your life is on the verge of collapse, much like Job’s home.

Whether it’s the fear of losing a loved one, the strain of being the sole provider, or the relentless pressure of mounting bills, these scenarios bring up the same deep-seated anxiety. Dealing with these challenges, we’re constantly trying to keep our lives from falling apart, feeling like we’re right on the edge of our own breakdown. But Proverbs 18:10 (NLT) reminds us, “The name of the Lord is a strong fortress; the godly run to him and are safe.” In these moments of overwhelming stress, we can find comfort and refuge in God. He’s our safe place, a stronghold that can help us weather any storm.

Admittedly, it can be challenging to believe this when you’ve been shouldering everything for those you love for so long. It’s easy to feel worn out and discouraged, especially when you’ve carried the weight of responsibilities, sacrifices, and fears on your own. At times, it may seem like there’s no end in sight, and the idea of finding refuge and strength can feel distant and unreal. Yet, even in the midst of exhaustion and frustration, God’s promises hold true.

When you’re overwhelmed and feel like you’ve reached your limit, remember that you’re not alone in this. Matthew 11:28 (NLT) offers a comforting invitation: “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.” Turning to God in these moments of struggle can bring renewed hope and strength, reminding us that there is a powerful source of support and comfort available, even when everything seems like it’s on the verge of collapse.

Our Heavenly Father doesn’t cause the painful situations in our lives, but He knows we will face them. 2 Peter 2:9 (NLT) tells us, “So you see, the Lord knows how to rescue godly people from their trials, even while keeping the wicked under punishment until the day of final judgment.” This means that, even in our most challenging moments, God is fully aware of our struggles. He has the power to transform our difficulties into opportunities for growth and beauty. All power is in His hands, and He is both willing and able to guide us through our trials, turning what seems like rubble into something stronger and more magnificent.■

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

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Shift from Reaction to Response

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In 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 (NLT), our Heavenly Father gave the Apostle Paul a powerful truth: “9 Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me. 10 That’s why I take pleasure in my weaknesses, and in the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” This passage reassures us that even in our darkest moments—whether we face physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual struggles—these are opportunities for God’s strength to shine through. Our vulnerabilities are not just burdens but opportunities for God’s power to manifest in our lives.

Life’s unpredictability can bring us to our knees, but as God’s children, He has equipped us with the authority of Jesus Christ to overcome any challenge victoriously. By staying rooted in God’s Word, we can navigate life’s storms with confidence and resilience, turning potential setbacks into opportunities for spiritual growth. To make this happen, we must have faith in God. We shouldn’t give in to doubt when things get tough because God has promised to help us. No matter the severity of the difficulty, everything will be resolved when we remain committed to having faith in our Heavenly Father.

When we’re going through it and we feel like our backs are against the wall, we might think that our Heavenly Father has forsaken us. Some people who haven’t learned more about Him through His Word might even blame God for their misery, believing He is punishing them. But this is not true. God does not cause bad things to happen to us. He is a God of peace and has given us the Holy Spirit through Jesus Christ so that His peace can continually dwell in our hearts.

Rather than focusing only on the problem, Isaiah 26:3 (NLT) encourages us to shift our thoughts to God: “You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!” We need to focus our minds on God’s goodness, mercy, and grace. Instead of letting darkness lead us into regression, we should recognize that we can rise higher in Christ. By growing in faith and spiritual maturity, we gain a new perspective—one that transforms worry into joy in the Lord.

Hebrews 11:6 (NLT) encourages us to cultivate thoughts and emotions that help us please our Heavenly Father. The verse states, “And it is impossible to please God without faith. Anyone who wants to come to him must believe that God exists and that he rewards those who sincerely seek him.” In times of adversity, our natural tendency is to react impulsively, often driven by fear, frustration, and anxiety But instead of letting those negative emotions take over, this verse challenges us to respond with faith. Rather than letting fear control our actions, we’re called to trust in God and believe that He’s got our back. By choosing faith over fear, we stay aligned with God’s plan and open ourselves up to His guidance and blessings.

In practical terms, this means actively shifting our focus from problems to God’s promises. Instead of dwelling on what might go wrong, we can remind ourselves of God’s past faithfulness and His assurances for the future. This shift in perspective not only helps us manage stress and anxiety but also strengthens our relationship with God. When we make a habit of responding with faith, we’re not just coping with challenges; we’re growing spiritually and building resilience. Our faith becomes a powerful tool for navigating life’s ups and downs, transforming obstacles into opportunities for deeper connection with God and His purpose for us.

In real terms, this means shifting our focus from what’s going wrong to what God has promised. Rather than stressing about potential problems, we should remind ourselves of God’s past help and His promises for the future. This change in perspective not only helps us deal with stress but also strengthens our communion with God. When we make faith our first response, we’re not just handling tough times better—we’re also growing spiritually and becoming stronger. Our faith becomes a game-changer for navigating life’s challenges, turning obstacles into chances for deeper spiritual growth and, most importantly, forging a stronger relationship with God.■

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

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Let God Handle It

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Proverbs 20:22 (NLT) says, “Don’t say, ‘I will get even for this wrong.’ Wait for the Lord to handle the matter.” This verse offers profound guidance for us as believers, calling us to a higher standard of patience and trust. Sometimes, living out this principle can be incredibly challenging, especially when we are deeply hurt by the actions of others.

As believers that are following the example of Jesus Christ, we can face life’s ups and downs from a place of unwavering faith in God’s love and grace. Galatians 5:25(NLT) tells us, “Since we are living by the Spirit, let us follow the Spirit’s leading in every part of our lives.” The Holy Spirit guides us into all truth, and we apply our faith as we yield to him and trust his guidance. This faith we have in the Spirit is not just a shield against hardship but a source of strength to face it. He empowers us beyond what we can imagine.

The mindset of walking by faith and following the Spirit’s guidance is beautifully illustrated by the story of a dear sister-friend of mine, who found herself grappling with a significant personal trial. She had been in a relationship where promises of change were made, especially on a hopeful occasion like Mother’s Day weekend. Her boyfriend vowed to stop drinking and seek help for his anger issues, but instead of improvement, his behavior worsened. This culminated in a frightening and aggressive outburst where he physically pinned her against the wall. Her initial reaction was one of pain and a strong desire for retribution.

A strong desire for revenge is not uncommon to most of us. We see it everywhere—when people are hurt or wronged, their first impulse often is to seek revenge or justice on their own terms. The natural human response is to want to “get even,” to balance the scales of justice according to our own understanding. Yet, the wisdom of Proverbs 20:22 calls us to a different path.

My friend defended herself, but also remained calm so that the situation didn’t escalate any further. However, her anger after this incident was almost uncontrollable. “No man has ever put their hands on me like that, and I’m going to make him pay!” she said. In moments of hurt and betrayal, the temptation to retaliate is strong. We might feel justified in our anger and think that we can manage the situation better than God could. But Proverbs 20:22 reminds us that seeking revenge not only fails to bring us true healing, but it also endangers us further. When we act out of hurt, we often make things worse rather than better, compounding our pain and possibly leading to more significant consequences.

Rather than taking matters into our own hands, we need to allow the Holy Spirit to take the lead. His power has no equal, and when we place our trust in him, he will guide us to God’s Will. John 16:13(NLT) tells us, “When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all truth. He will not speak on his own but will tell you what he has heard. He will tell you about the future.” The Holy Spirit tells us what he has heard from our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, and Jesus is the answer to all life’s questions. Rather than acting out of revenge, the Lord commands us to shift our gears to faith in him, so he can bring resolution, restoration, and healing.

My sister-friend ultimately gave up her plans for revenge. She learned the hard way that God’s way is always best. We must draw near to Him and be patient as He guides us. Lamentations 3:25(NKJV) says, “The Lord is good to those who wait for Him, To the soul who seeks Him.” The call to “wait for the Lord” is not a passive or inactive stance. It’s an active trust in God’s justice, mercy, and timing. Waiting for the Lord means surrendering our need for immediate resolution and trusting that God sees the full picture, that He is righteous in His judgments, and that His plans for us are good. ■

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Scripture taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

“Let God Handle It”, written for DomesticAbuseAwareness.Org ©2025. All rights reserved. All done to the glory of God through Jesus Christ, our Lord!

Waiting for God’s Help

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When things go wrong, our first instinct is often to fix them ourselves. But what happens when we can’t? Who do we turn to? As believers, we should always turn to God, yet sometimes we find ourselves questioning His plan or our own faith. Life can be tough; it can wear us down and cause us to wonder if we’ll find true answers and lasting peace. Many of us can relate to the sentiments in Psalm 69:3 (NLT): “I am exhausted from crying for help; my throat is parched. My eyes are swollen with weeping, waiting for my God to help me.” This verse captures the raw emotion and desperate need for God’s intervention that many of us experience during times of hardship and uncertainty. It reminds us to lean on God completely, trusting that He hears our cries and will provide comfort, guidance, and help in His perfect timing.  

I recall a time in my life when I had to wait for God’s help. Early in my marriage, my husband became physically abusive. The signs were there even before we married, but I ignored them. Many nights, I cried myself to sleep, feeling trapped and without a way out. It was during those darkest moments that I turned to prayer, seeking God’s guidance and strength. I questioned why this was happening and struggled to find the courage to change my situation.

Psalm 46:1-2 (NLT) reassures us, “God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble. So we will not fear when earthquakes come and the mountains crumble into the sea.” These verses are more than encouragement; they stand as a powerful testament to the enduring goodness of God and His unwavering love for us. Our faith in God provides a refuge and a source of strength that sustains us through the most challenging times. It reminds us that even in the face of overwhelming circumstances—like earthquakes and mountains crumbling—God remains steadfast and ready to intervene on our behalf.

This truth should inspire and secure our overwhelming confidence in Him. When we love and honor God, we find that He never disappoints. His promises hold true, and His presence brings peace amidst turmoil. This assurance allows us to face difficulties with courage, knowing that God is with us and will guide us through every storm.

In John 16:33 (NLT), Jesus Christ reminds us, “I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.” The challenges of life can weigh heavy on us, especially the emotional, mental, and physical toll of domestic violence and abuse. It may seem that there’s no way out, but Jesus reminds us to focus on the victory he won for us on the cross when he gave his life as a sacrifice for our sins. He invites us to lay our burdens down and trust him with them.

It took time for me to grow in faith and courage, and to open my eyes to all the ways God was helping me. He had been extending His hand all along, and when the veil of doubt was removed, I could see His hand of mercy guiding me through the darkness. Through His grace and by following His guidance, He transformed my life in ways I never imagined possible, and He wants to do this for everyone that comes to Him.

Jesus plainly tells us that life won’t be easy. We will face trials and sorrows, but we can take heart because He has overcome them all. In every circumstance, we find resilience knowing that God’s strength sustains us. We won’t break or crumble because His promises are steadfast, and His love is unending. God can handle whatever burdens we cast upon Him; we just need to trust that He is faithful to His Word. ■

 Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

“Waiting for God’s Help”, written for DomesticAbuseAwareness.Org ©2025. All rights reserved. All done to the glory of God through Jesus Christ, our Lord!

Don’t Make Fear Comfortable

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In 1 John 4:18 (NLT), our Heavenly Father teaches us that by embracing His love, believers are freed from fear. This verse states: “Such love has no fear, because perfect love expels all fear. If we are afraid, it is for fear of punishment, and this shows that we have not fully experienced his perfect love.” As we continue to grow in our relationship with God and in our understanding of His love, we are transformed by it. Our perspectives shift from fear to trust and confidence in Him. This is what allows us to truly live in freedom, knowing that God’s perfect love casts out fear and brings about transformation in our lives.

When we talk about how God’s love changes us, it’s not just some abstract idea. It really affects us—how we think about ourselves, how we treat others, and how we face tough times. God’s love is a light in the darkness. As we keep walking with Him—reading His Word to understand His heart, praying to grow closer to Him, and just spending time with Him—we’ll find that these aren’t just routines. They’re moments where we encounter our Heavenly Father who loves us deeply. And through these experiences, we learn that God doesn’t just want us to get by; He wants us to thrive. The wonderful thing about this is that as we thrive in His love, our lives start reflecting that love in amazing ways.

Fear is a powerful emotion that can significantly impact our lives and hinder us from fully embracing the wonderful plan God has for us. When we allow fear to dominate our thoughts and decisions, it creates barriers that prevent us from stepping into the fullness of God’s purpose and blessings. It limits our faith and therefore, overcoming fear should be a priority in our lives.

In Psalm 27:1 (NLT), the psalmist declared: “The LORD is my light and my salvation—so why should I be afraid? The LORD is my fortress, protecting me from danger, so why should I tremble?” This verse conveys extraordinary assurance in God’s sovereignty and omnipotence. The psalmist’s unwavering faith shines through, affirming his full confidence in our Heavenly Father. This confidence and faith are essential for us too, trusting that if God is for us, as Romans 8:31 declares, nothing and no one can be against us.

Jesus Christ explains why he came to the earth in John 10:10 (NKJV): “The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” Here, Jesus contrasts himself with the thief, the devil, who only brings harm and destruction. Jesus, on the other hand, reveals his mission to offer us a life that’s not just getting by, but thriving—full of his joy, peace, and meaning. His mission is all about giving us hope, rescuing us from darkness, and showing us how to live abundantly in his love and grace.

There can be no doubt that the devil’s mission is to keep us ensnared through fear so that we will not live the powerful life God intends for us all. Our faith in God disrupts the enemy’s plan to steal the power and abundance God has so generously provided to all who love and honor Him. By whispering doubts in our ears, the devil aims to make us to hesitate and withdraw from who God has called us to be and what He has called us to do. Instead of trusting in God’s provision and promises, we might focus on all the ways things could go wrong, and this stalls our spiritual progress and growth.

Fear can really hold us back emotionally and spiritually. It makes us feel unsure about ourselves and our abilities, questioning whether we’re good enough. This can stop us from fully embracing who we are in Christ and from confidently using the unique gifts and talents God has given us. Instead of living boldly and with purpose, we might play it safe and stick to what’s comfortable, missing out on the full, abundant life that Jesus promises to those who follow Him wholeheartedly.

Fear not only undermines our relationships but also leads us to seek comfort in relationships that perpetuate our fears. God didn’t create us to be victims or to live in fear. Genesis 1:26 tells us that He made us in His very own image. 1 John 4:16 (NLT) further affirms: “We know how much God loves us, and we have put our trust in his love. God is love, and all who live in love live in God, and God lives in them.” Therefore, we were created out of God’s love to both share and receive love in the healthiest and most genuine ways possible.

God desires us to love others through His grace and peace so that we can build strong bonds that nurture us continually. As we open our hearts to Him and learn more about His love through His Word, it empowers us. Embracing our identity in Christ, we begin to confidently walk in the unique gifts and talents that God has bestowed upon each of us. This is His Will. When we place our faith in Him, and commit to live through Christ, fear is no longer made comfortable. Instead, our lives become a testament to God’s transformative power, and we find courage and strength to face each day with hope, purpose, and increasing faith. ■

 Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

Scripture taken from the New King James Version. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson, Inc. Used by permission. All rights reserved. 

“Don’t Make Fear Comfortable”, written for DomesticAbuseAwareness.Org ©2025. All rights reserved. All done to the glory of God through Jesus Christ, our Lord!

Get Rid of the Bad Stuff

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Discernment is a powerful tool for guiding our decisions and choices. In our world, there exists both good and bad. James 1:17(NLT) tells us: “Whatever is good and perfect comes down to us from God our Father, who created all the lights in the heavens. He never changes or casts a shifting shadow.” In contrast, Jesus Christ teaches in John 10:10 that the devil is a thief who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy. Every negative, dark, evil, and destructive element finds its root in satan. By applying the wisdom of God’s Word, we can sharpen our discernment regarding the origin of every circumstance, encounter, and experience in our lives. This understanding enables us to differentiate what comes from God and what comes from satan, empowering us to make informed choices about whom we will serve.

The directive from our Heavenly Father in Ephesians 4:30-32 (NLT) states: “30 And do not bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit by the way you live. Remember, he has identified you as his own, guaranteeing that you will be saved on the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. 32 Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.”

God’s directive in this passage is extremely meaningful and impactful to our lives. He imparts wisdom that guides us to cultivate a life of love and light, following the example of Jesus Christ. Through His Word, we understand that bad stuff—negative emotions, attitudes, behaviors, and actions—are rooted in darkness, the realm of evil. If we participate in things that have their root in satan, we are opening ourselves to trouble. Therefore, we face a choice: either we embody the ugliness we feel or get rid of the bad stuff like anger and bitterness.

To feel better about our lives and ourselves, we can seek God’s forgiveness, forgive ourselves, and extend forgiveness to those that have caused us pain. This process allows us to experience the peace and healing of Christ and move forward positively in God’s love by accepting the comfort that He offers to each of us.

In 2 Corinthians 1:4-7 (NLT), our Heavenly Father assures believers, through the Apostle Paul, of His provision of comfort and healing as we deal with heartbreak, trouble, and challenges: “4 He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us. 5 For the more we suffer for Christ, the more God will shower us with his comfort through Christ. 6 Even when we are weighed down with troubles, it is for your comfort and salvation! For when we ourselves are comforted, we will certainly comfort you. Then you can patiently endure the same things we suffer. 7 We are confident that as you share in our sufferings, you will also share in the comfort God gives us.”

The more we endure for Christ, the more of God’s comfort we experience through our blessed Lord. Even when we’re weighed down by troubles, ultimately, it can benefit the comfort and salvation of others. When we receive God’s comfort, we’re better equipped to comfort those around us, helping them endure their own challenges. We experience a very special aspect of unity in Christ this way, understanding that this Christian journey is a shared one, where we find strength and encouragement in him together.

Discomfort and pain are not meant to be our norm. So, we must never allow our negative feelings to dictate our spiritual journey with God. If we have strayed from the path He intended for us, our circumstances often make us uncomfortable to show us the need for a course correction. Therefore, pain, mixed emotions, and feeling bad should serve as warning signs that prompt us to pursue the light and love of positive change through Christ.

When we linger too long in darkness, our circumstances can become toxic and unbearable. 2 Corinthians 7:9 encourages us that this discomfort should compel us to repent and change our ways. In other words, we must take responsibility for motivating ourselves to make necessary changes by seeking God’s Will and following His Word.

Our loving Heavenly Father desires for us to know joy, love, and success in life. Yet, He also recognizes that achieving these blessings often involves enduring challenging circumstances and embracing necessary changes. While adjusting to new routines can be tough, resisting change can prompt life to intervene and shift our perspective. This isn’t the end of the story; rather, it marks the beginning of a new chapter!

Through our victory in Christ, we are equipped to navigate hardships without succumbing to bitterness, anger, jealousy, or any other negative influences. When we set our sights on this goal, we consistently emerge victorious and transformed according to God’s plan and purpose for our lives. His guidance leads us toward a life filled with fulfillment and spiritual growth. ■

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

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God Never Forsakes His People

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Christians are often known for their warmth and friendliness, traits that might lead others to assume they have no enemies. However, in the lives of many believers as well as those who don’t yet know Christ, adversaries can unexpectedly surface, even within the closest circles of relationships. It’s alarming to confront the shocking reality that someone we’ve deeply cherished—a spouse, parent, or professed loved one—has transformed into a source of conflict, fear, or hostility. How did a bond that was initially blanketed in love turn sour, bubbling over with tension and potential harm? Regardless of the specifics, the prevailing emotions are those of fear and apprehension, as we find ourselves having to guard against someone or something that now threatens our peace and well-being.

No matter what trials you may face or what challenges lie ahead, remember that nothing is hidden from God. You are not alone, and there is always a path to resolution. God sees every aspect of your story and stands ready to provide help and restoration. Even in the face of persecution or loss, choosing to love Him steadfastly brings about a promise of restoration. Truth prevails, and God never abandons His people or leaves them defenseless. Even in the darkest moments, His presence remains unwavering, offering comfort, strength, and the assurance that His ultimate plan includes redemption and restoration.

In Deuteronomy 30:3-5 (NLT), our Heavenly Father proclaimed a message of hope to His people: “3 then the LORD your God will restore your fortunes. He will have mercy on you and gather you back from all the nations where he has scattered you. 4 Even though you are banished to the ends of the earth, the LORD your God will gather you from there and bring you back again. 5 The LORD your God will return you to the land that belonged to your ancestors, and you will possess that land again. Then he will make you even more prosperous and numerous than your ancestors!”

This verse speaks to the promise of restoration and compassion from God. It addresses a time when the Israelites, due to their disobedience, were scattered among the nations. Despite their rebelliousness, God assures them that He will not abandon them forever. Instead, He promises to gather them back, restoring their wealth and showing them compassion. He tells them that even if they find themselves in the farthest reaches of the earth, His power and love are not limited by any boundaries, geographical or otherwise. He can reach them wherever they are and bring them back. This emphasizes our Heavenly Father’s incredible grace and mercy. Deuteronomy 30:3-5 reflects not just God’s enduring faithfulness to His people living in Old Testament times, but it demonstrates His willingness to forgive, restore, and bless those of us living today.

Jesus Christ told his disciples in John 15:18 (NLT), “If the world hates you, remember that it hated me first.” This serves as a poignant reminder that as his followers, we may encounter hatred and persecution in this world. He doesn’t ever want any of us to go through betrayal and heartbreak, but he informs us that these things can happen in the world that we live in, and he prepares us this reality. We may experience undeserved persecution, and when we do, we must remember that we are not the first. Jesus experienced the full extent of human hatred and cruelty and endured the cross for the sake of us all. Our Heavenly Father victoriously resurrected him from the grave, and He invites us to share in this victory!

Hebrews 13:5 (NLT) tells us, “Don’t love money; be satisfied with what you have. For God has said, “I will never fail you. I will never abandon you.”” As a society, many of us place a tremendous amount of confidence in money, material things, and even our relationships with others. This verse urges us to cultivate a mindset of contentment, not based on pretend or fluff, but based on truth—based on the reality that God will never fail or abandon us. Regardless of life’s circumstances, we must priority our relationship with God over any other pursuit. His enduring faithfulness is our security in life, and we can lean on Him and always trust Him to come to our aid. ■

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

“God Never Forsakes His People”, written for DomesticAbuseAwareness.Org ©2025. All rights reserved. All done to the glory of God through Jesus Christ, our Lord!

He Hears Our Cries & Rescues Us

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Psalm 145:18-19 (NLT) states: “The Lord is close to all who call on him, yes, to all who call on him in truth.  He grants the desires of those who fear him; he hears their cries for help and rescues them.” This incredibly wonderful scripture assures us that when we sincerely call upon the Lord, He draws near to us and responds to our cries for help. This truth is like a comforting melody to me, reminding me that Jesus Christ is constantly by my side, regardless of the challenges I face. It’s a reminder that our true home lies beyond this world, and our purpose here is to serve God’s Kingdom and nurture a close bond with Him through our Savior. Jesus Christ, our closest companion, understands every form of suffering imaginable, having endured it all on the cross for our sake. Whenever we find ourselves in need, Psalm 145:18-19 encourages us to call upon the Lord genuinely, knowing that He is always there to answer our prayers and provide comfort and rescue.

Our Master Jesus said in John 8:32 (NLT): “And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” You and I can’t be free by believing a lie. We must know, believe, and trust God’s truth, because it frees us from oppression and darkness. Jesus reminds us that liberation comes from aligning ourselves with his reality, not with falsehood. There’s liberty and justice in truth and that’s exactly who Jesus Christ is for the Christian believer. He affirms this in John 14:6 (NLT) when he declares: “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one can come to the Father except through me.” Our Lord and Savior paved the way to victory for us, and as we follow him in our lives, the path of God’s blessings opens us for us.

Feeling intense sadness and isolation during challenging times is a heavy burden to bear. In those moments, it’s common to feel utterly alone, as if no one understands or supports you. This sense of despair can make it incredibly difficult to believe that help is within reach, that assistance is just a prayer away. The weight of our struggles can cloud our minds and hearts, making it hard to connect with the faith that God is our Source of comfort and guidance.

However, despite the overwhelming darkness, the truth remains: help is indeed only a prayer away. Even when it feels like no one else is on our side, we can find comfort and strength in turning to our Heavenly Father. He has all power, and He delights in helping us. He tells us in Matthew 6:33 that we should seek Him and His Kingdom first, and when we do this, He promises to take care of all our needs.

Although it can be tough to summon the faith to trust in the power of prayer during times of intense struggle, it’s vital to recall that we’re never truly alone; prayer is our acknowledgement of this. It’s our invitation to the One who has all power to intervene and introduce His love and power into our situations. We can be confident that God is ever ready to listen, console, and lead us through our darkest moments. Clinging to this truth brings hope in a very meaningful way.

The timeless wisdom of Proverbs 3:5 tells us not to lean on our own understanding, but to trust in the Lord with all our hearts. Our own understanding is limited, and leaning on it can lead to mistakes, confusion, and unnecessary worry. However, entrusting our hearts fully to the Lord allows us to surrender control and seek His divine guidance in every aspect of our lives. The bottom line is that we must have humility and faith, acknowledging that we don’t have all the answers and that God’s ways are higher than our own. True wisdom begins with acknowledging our dependence on our Heavenly Father. He hears our cries, and when our faith is in Him alone, He’ll rescue us as His guidance lights our way to peace, comfort, and greater faith in Him. ■

Scripture quotations marked (NLT) are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Wheaton, Illinois 60189. All rights reserved.

“He Hears Our Cries & Rescues Us”, written for DomesticAbuseAwareness.Org ©2025. All rights reserved. All done to the glory of God through Jesus Christ, our Lord!